You’re Someone’s Mother?
Not much happening today.Had a busy, busy day yesterday. Went down to the water and watched a big parade and stayed for fireworks. Met up with friends and their kids. Saw tons of people I know or knew.
It’s funny how all the people I used to party with are now having kids. They must be thinking the same thing about me that I am about them, which is: “Holy shit…I can’t believe you’re someone’s parent”. Some of these people made me look like a nun. They could out-drink, out-drug and out-everything me. There are good and bad sides to living in the same city for 20 years.
I also ran into a lot of people from my mom’s club. I was an officer in this club but since I got pregnant with my last child, I lost interest. Naps kind of took over my life. Now the baby’s naps rule my life. But really, while every single person in the club was super nice, I just felt a little out of place. I’m not sure that a former party girl with a pierced nose (but no ring), tattoo (usually hidden) and mostly liberal views (also usually hidden) actually fit that well. I always felt like I had to tone myself down to be on their level. It just got old.
When P gives up his early morning nap, I’m going to look into getting back into a playgroup again. Maybe it will be different as a regular member instead of an officer.
Anyone out there in a mom’s club? What was/is it like?
In other news…did you know that most people have staph bacteria living in their nose? You should never pick your nose and then scratch your eye (or pick a scab or open sore) without washing your hands first. Apparently, this is one way people get styes and other infections in their eye. I recently read this somewhere.
I bet your eye is itching RIGHT NOW.













I’m in a moms club. I like it okay but yeah, I never quite feel like I can be myself. They’re all kind of goody two shoes. Maybe it’s just this chapter or maybe everyone pretends to be like a perfect stepford mom because they don’t want to be judged as a bad mom or something.
Thanks for your input.
Is Bethy really the only one out of all the people who come around that\’s been in a mom\’s club? I\’m truly surprised. I thought it would be more prevalent.
Hmmm…interesting.